When a loved one is facing a life-limiting illness, hospice care can be a valuable resource for providing comfort, support, and compassionate care during their final days. However, it’s not uncommon for patients and their families to feel resistant to hospice care, either due to fear, misunderstanding, or a lack of awareness about the benefits that hospice can provide.
At Perennial Hospice, we understand the challenges that families face when navigating end-of-life care. In this article, we’ll share five tips for overcoming resistance to hospice care and helping your loved one receive the compassionate care they deserve.
1. Educate yourself and your loved one about hospice care
One of the most common reasons for resistance to hospice care is a lack of understanding about what hospice care entails. Hospice care is not about giving up hope or “giving in” to illness – it’s about providing comfort, support, and quality of life for patients and their families during a difficult time.
Take some time to research hospice care and the services that it offers. Talk to your loved one about their fears or concerns, and be prepared to answer any questions they may have about hospice care.
2. Find a hospice provider that aligns with your values and priorities
Not all hospice providers are the same. It’s important to find a hospice provider that aligns with your values and priorities, and that you feel comfortable entrusting with your loved one’s care.
Consider factors such as the provider’s experience, reputation, and level of communication and support. Look for a provider that offers personalized care plans tailored to your loved one’s needs, and that emphasizes comfort and quality of life over aggressive medical interventions.
3. Involve your loved one in decision-making
Resistance to hospice care can sometimes stem from a feeling of loss of control or autonomy. By involving your loved one in decision-making and giving them a say in their care, you can help them feel more empowered and in control.
Ask your loved one about their preferences and priorities, and work with your hospice provider to develop a care plan that respects their wishes and supports their goals.
4. Seek support from a professional counselor or social worker
End-of-life care can be emotionally challenging for patients and their families. If you or your loved one are struggling with feelings of anxiety, depression, or grief, consider seeking support from a professional counselor or social worker.
A counselor or social worker can provide emotional support, help you navigate difficult conversations, and offer coping strategies and resources for managing stress and grief.
5. Lean on your support system
Finally, it’s important to lean on your support system during this difficult time. Reach out to family members, friends, and other loved ones for emotional support, practical assistance, and respite care.
Your hospice provider can also offer support and resources for caregivers, including respite care, counseling services, and assistance with daily tasks such as meal preparation and medication management.
At Perennial Hospice, we understand the challenges that families face when navigating end-of-life care. Our experienced team of professionals is committed to providing compassionate, personalized care that honors your loved one’s dignity and supports their goals and priorities. Contact us today to learn more about our hospice care services and how we can support you and your family during this difficult time.